Okay, I have only ever been with one partner and always felt way out of my depth soo I canāt really imagine to stress of having to pleasure or getting pleasure of multiple partners.
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funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works āØ17ā© āØhoursā© agoIāve had a bunch of group sex (cis bi male).
Nowadays Iād not be into it, but at the time it was fun.
i slightly skew towards preferring women but the best group sex I had, and the kind that i felt most comfortable was all men.
fenrasulfr@lemmy.world āØ16ā© āØhoursā© ago
Apytele@sh.itjust.works āØ11ā© āØhoursā© ago
Less ācompetitiveā mindset I think. I feel like homophobia has resulted in a lot of men taking their pent up sexual aggression out on women when they might otherwise be able to identify themselves as bi and just work out those feelings with another dude. Instead we have all these men spiraling into emotional black holes because women donāt want them right this second. Iāve heard anecdotally that if everyone felt 100% comfortable being honest bi people would probably be the true majority. So itās not like it would fix the incel problem but there might be few enough that they couldnāt concentrate into inescapable singularities.
SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone āØ6ā© āØhoursā© ago
Yup, once got to see a man specifically want to receive a bj from another guy, and when it actually started he freaked out and left.
Toxic masculinity really hurts everyone