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fenrasulfr@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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  • fenrasulfr@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    So it is a matter of having partners you trust and enjoy being around. Still can’t see myself ever doing it but thanks for explaining why it works for some people.

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    • SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

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      • fenrasulfr@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Yeah I can imagine most people would look at you as a degenerate (which you aren’t) if you were to talk about it in person.

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  • KeenFlame@feddit.nu ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Can you explain again, that part in more detail, its a little confusing to me. You did what exactly like more specifically maybe an outline of the events and then perhaps someone can explain which one is Jill

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• funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  I’ve had a bunch of group sex (cis bi male).

  Nowadays I’d not be into it, but at the time it was fun.

  i slightly skew towards preferring women but the best group sex I had, and the kind that i felt most comfortable was all men.

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  • Apytele@sh.itjust.works ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Less “competitive” mindset I think. I feel like homophobia has resulted in a lot of men taking their pent up sexual aggression out on women when they might otherwise be able to identify themselves as bi and just work out those feelings with another dude. Instead we have all these men spiraling into emotional black holes because women don’t want them right this second. I’ve heard anecdotally that if everyone felt 100% comfortable being honest bi people would probably be the true majority. So it’s not like it would fix the incel problem but there might be few enough that they couldn’t concentrate into inescapable singularities.

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  • fenrasulfr@lemmy.world ⁨3⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Okay, I have only ever been with one partner and always felt way out of my depth soo I can’t really imagine to stress of having to pleasure or getting pleasure of multiple partners.

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