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IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 weeks agoBut meal wise, she did not serve you anything wrong. all that she did is that she served another meal to someone else. You got your meal, exactly as you want to.
Otherwise is like me going to a restaurant and complain that despite my food being excellent, I was upset that the waiter had the audacity to serve someone else the same meal. It was meant only for me, because I am special, and only I get that meal.
tutter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
I don’t get what you’re trying to say
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
You associate the meal to her, if she does something without you, it inherently changes the meal. and now you dont like the new meal.
I associate the meal to the relationship. you get your meals, and her having a snack somewhere else will in no way change the meals that you get with her. And being upset about it is like complaining that your meal in a restaurant is bad because other people also ordered the same.
tutter@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
I’m getting lost in the food analogy sorry, would you be willing to try and explain in a different manner?
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Not sure how to continue.
If the only consequences of cheating is your emotions and the damages comes from your reaction (don’t necessarily mean violent, I mean like breaking up) then the act itself might not be the bad thing but the way you react.
Life is too short to deny ourself relationships that bring us joy, and how cruel is to expect that from anyone, especially not those whom we love.