Comment on Anon is terminally lonely
AlexLost@lemmy.world 1 day ago
A partner won’t fix you, or at least you shouldn’t expect them to. A partner is there to support you in good times and bad. A crutch to lean on when you need it. Someone to comfort you when you need it. They aren’t some magic tool to correct issues you might have.
Demdaru@lemmy.world 1 day ago
However partner can be a driving force for you to start fighting for yourself - an external motivation. And partner can offer a boost to perceived self worth. Enough to enable you to try to fight for yourself.
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
A partner can also the source of your misery and separating yourself from them can finally allow you to respect yourself.
Demdaru@lemmy.world 12 hours ago
I wanted to argue. I really did. I hate it and I don’t want to connect partner as a word to abusive fucks you mention. But I cannot as they are included. Have an updoot and know you ruined my day ;-;
TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 11 hours ago
haha, it gets worse. you can have a partner who was wonderful and morphs into an abusive horrible person over time, because they are unhappy with their life and you become their punching bag.