They’re bad with women and they find one that is nice to them or just talks to them or whatever, then they think they finally have a shot and get fixated on her but then find out she has a boyfriend. Since she’s THE ONE the other guy must be an asshole and they should break up.
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VinnyDaCat@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I never understood this specific example. Why are people so obsessed with someone that’s already spoken for? It shows such a lack of respect for boundaries.
I’ve run into the type of guy that thinks it’s alright to harass someone because they’re in a relationship with someone they’re interested in, and what makes me sad is how so many see nothing wrong with it.
lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 month ago
IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 1 month ago
“Nice” guy, that’s a massive incel red flag.
VinnyDaCat@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Nah, I know what nice guys are. I just more so meant I didn’t understand these people.
I don’t know about others, but I tend to look at how someone treats others as insight on how they’ll treat me. If someone is openly malicious to other people for such petty reasons then they’ll treat you the same way.