I had a work evaluation one year and my only negative was basically “Too nice” and I am oretty sure that lines up to what you are saying about assertiveness.
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SGforce@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
People don’t explain what they mean by “You’re too nice”. They mean “be more assertive”. That means stand up for yourself and others. Not “be an asshole”. The attention you would get from being an asshole isn’t what you think it is.
RamenJunkie@midwest.social 2 weeks ago
punkwalrus@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Yeah, like if you’re going 45 on the highway, go faster. But not 120.
rumschlumpel@feddit.org 2 weeks ago
Unless you’re in Germany Ü
Aganim@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I would not recommend doing 45 on a German highway, or any other European highway for that matter, unless you’re in a traffic jam. 😋