Oh “why do good girls like bad guys” is one of those questions of the ages. It exists for many reasons, but the short list is:

• there’s a fine line between confidence and assholery

• there’s a bunch of emotions that are neurochemically identical and than can often be misattributed as each other and “scared” and “horny” share most of the same neurotransmitters.

• daddy issues and other psychosocial toxicity that you probably don’t want anything to do with anyway.