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polotype@lemmy.ml 2 weeks agoWell it’s a heluva lot more awkward once they know you thiught you could get with’em now isn’t it ?
HikingVet@lemmy.ca 2 weeks ago
polotype@lemmy.ml 2 weeks ago
It means where you might once have been friends, because you wanted to know if they wanted to go further, you may now be estranged (?dont know thzt that’s the word) which is sad, because you probably both enjoyed each other’s company.
HikingVet@lemmy.ca 2 weeks ago
This is where clear communication comes in. Te ability to deal with difficult topics and emotions in a mature manner is part of that. It doesn’t NEED to remain awkward.
Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca 2 weeks ago
I don’t find it awkward at all. If someone’s not into me, they are not into me. I’ll respect their wishes, keep any further conversation with them brief and at acquaintance level, and move on with my life. We all have preferences, and I’m not interested in being fixated on someone that turns me down. There are plenty of other people in the world. My life peaceful and I am ok with being alone and doing my own thing.