Comment on The Bots That Women Use in a World of Unsatisfying Men

PabloSexcrowbar@piefed.social ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• Onomatopoeia@lemmy.cafe ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Imagine the shit storm had a man said something similar.

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  • PabloSexcrowbar@piefed.social ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Yeah, I can only imagine how terrifying the inside of that lady’s mind must be. To be trapped in there 24/7 sounds like something I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy.

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  • Damage@feddit.it ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    That goes for the whole article, if you swapped the genders the outrage would be unfathomable

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• Powderhorn@beehaw.org ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Have you never had a relationship where it feels like you’re always geared for war?

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  • PabloSexcrowbar@piefed.social ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Sure have. I left it after 10 years of trying to make it work with someone who was texting her paramour while sitting next to me in bed. By the end of it, I didn’t want to talk to her, either.

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    • Powderhorn@beehaw.org ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I can’t really say I blame you. For me, it was her weed dealer whom she spent entirely too long with on pickups.

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      • PabloSexcrowbar@piefed.social ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        Ah, you got roughly the same drug-infused version I did, then. In my case, she was texting some truck driver from 1500 miles away that she had met playing WoW who convinced her that kratom and Adderall were the solutions to all of her problems.

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  • psx_crab@lemmy.zip ⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Yes, and it can come from either the man and woman in that relationship.

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    • Powderhorn@beehaw.org ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      What’s really fun is when it’s both.

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• Kissaki@beehaw.org ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Dark humor is a coping mechanism. Venting elsewhere doesn’t tell us anything about their communication style.

  I don’t see anything that would warrant blaming her here.

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