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realitista@lemmus.org 2 days agoYeah I’ve rejected girls before. I haven’t felt good about it. As I got older I tried to oblige as much as possible even if I wasn’t that into it. But then you have to let them down afterwards too. But generally less painful I think that way.
sauerkrautsaul@lemmus.org 2 days ago
did you really just did type that fucking a girl who likes you for a while before you reject them makes it less painful for them? or did you mean just like chatting for a while
trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world 2 days ago
They were pretty vague about it, but I’d assume they’d just go on one or two dates instead of having sex.
peopleproblems@lemmy.world 1 day ago
I have learned some people equate dates to sex. I’ve had to make it clear that unless the chemistry is way out of control and we can’t deny it in the moment, I don’t want to get into her pants right away as it will make the natural progression of a secure relationship more difficult.