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Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

• Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  You could get a vasectomy…

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  • Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    My guy I am 23. I kinda want kids at a later date.

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    • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      …really?

      looks around world

      …why?

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      • Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        I dunno. Things might change. I also don’t wanna grow old alone.

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    • Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Look into freezing sperm now while you’re young and it’s squirmy and spermy and healthy. Then you can get the snip (or the no-snip method) and when you do want kids you won’t be ruining your sex life with scheduled sessions. She can get inseminated when the ultrasound shows an ovum is waiting and it’ll have a better chance of conception. Go in with her if you can and she’s comfortable with that. Just as you will for the birth.

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      • swampdownloader@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        “Ruining your sex life with scheduled sessions”? Oh no I have to fuck a lot, woe is me

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      • Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        I think I can live with using condoms to be completely honest. I do intend to get a vasectomy after I either have kids or decide that I don’t want them.

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  • three@lemmy.zip ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Wrong! The woman should have the responsibility of preventing children. It’s her body.

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    • Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      The woman should be ABLE and ALLOWED to protect herself against pregnancy, yes, but the responsibility isn’t all hers. Every unwanted pregnancy starts with sperm. Her ovum was just sitting there, innocently drifting down the fallopian tube, staying inside her body.

      Any man who doesn’t accept his full responsibility for preventing pregnancy, or for the consequences of a pregnancy occurring, is a shit.

      Female-centered methods that are invasive like IUDs or rely on hormones like the Pill have common side effects like intense pain, personality changes, increased stroke and heart attack risk. The only reason women tolerate them is because the consequences of pregnancy are higher for them. The side effects of vasectomy are temporary pain and bruising, and sperm granuloma. Sperm quality diminishes quite slowly and sperm can be frozen beforehand, so it’s still possible to father a wanted child.

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