Comment on Discussion Thread 😺 Friday 19 December 2025

melbaboutown@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

• CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  The great thing about advice is you can take it or leave it but you still learn from it.

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  • melbaboutown@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    I just come on a bit strong so people might not realise they can leave it, or may choose not to open up for fear of being pounced on.

    I was raised by people who behaved like this

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    • CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Everyone knows you mean well. Give yourself some credit ❤️

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• Bottom_racer@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  really in your face and a lot of unsolicited advice

  I think the great thing about this place is we can all safely get stuff out in the open and all the advice (yours very much inclusive) is very much welcomed.

  It’s a really nice corner of the web that you are very much part of :)

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  • melbaboutown@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

    Thanks. I’m just aware sometimes I fret and start trying to ‘herd’ people. Which could come off as controlling and make some people uncomfortable to share delicate things for fear of feeling judged.

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    • SaneMartigan@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

      Different people offer different types of support. I’m very solution orientated, which isn’t everyone’s cup of tea. One of the great gifts I’ve given myself in the last ten years of my life is to accept that not everyone will like me and that’s okay (see a solution for your concerns).

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      • melbaboutown@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

        Yeah it’s a good way to think of it

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• Seagoon_@aussie.zone ⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  I see it as you being caring. You are saying positive things and want positive outcomes for people.

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