Comment on grindr dump (in post body)

• frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Funny how I never seem to have these issues with fems and non-binary people. Even the ones who grew up masc. In fact, most of the problems there are a direct result of really shitty behavior from men and trying to cope with it.

  Instead of going “not all men”, maybe try to point out shitty behavior? Maybe one day, we can get past all this.

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  • Ifera@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I point out shitty behavior, no matter the source. Hence why I am pointing out your very shitty behavior, that you’re too biased to even comprehend.

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    • frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      You sound like the reason women choose the bear.

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      • Ifera@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        And you sound like someone who polices choices, swallow the onion whole, feeds the trolls AND takes ragebait at face value.

        I truly hope you get to see the world and yourself with kinder, more reality based eyes one day.

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      • SSUPII@sopuli.xyz ⁨12⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

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  • dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    The point is, if 10% of guys in a given population are unspeakably awful, that’s the 10% who you will hear from on a dating app. You don’t get that from fems because they are typically being pursued on all dating and social media apps, because we still largely hold to the cultural norm that men/masc presenting people are responsible for asking the other person out.

    It seems worse on Grindr because the majority of users are cis men-the very people who have been told since birth that it’s their job to pursue sexual connections. Of course that leads to poor behavior.

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  • rishado@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    There’s no winning with you. You argue with the same logic as a trump supporter.

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