Comment on When the nice guy
JackbyDev@programming.dev 19 hours agoIf you’re legitimately worried about someone asking you that exact question (which is sort of an odd phrasing, I don’t think it would happen often) and you’re worried it would be done by people who don’t know you well, just talk about a hobby or something.
- What type of guy are you?
- For work I do blah, for play I do blah, and I’m really into hobby.
Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
Or, and hear me out, we could just not assume that some saying they are nice is a cunt because social media turned into it a clickable buzzword? Judge people by their actions, not whatever dogshit you were told was a red flag by some sad pathetic loser who does nothing all day but hate everything and anyone.
“Hes a nice guy!” is something people often say about others. Its not a trick, its a not a trap, and its not code for cunt. If someone is a cunt, just call them a cunt. Its easy.
HeurtisticAlgorithm9@feddit.uk 7 hours ago
Don’t worry I don’t think you’re a cunt because you describe yourself as nice. It’s because you’re acting like a cunt.
Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 7 hours ago
Yes, judging people by their actions instead of forcing social media buzzword bullshit on them, totally makes me a cunt… Good luck on getting those worthless up arrows for adding nothing to conversation.
HeurtisticAlgorithm9@feddit.uk 6 hours ago
Am I not judging you based on your actions? You overtly insult anyone who disagrees with you. You avoid any opportunity to have a rational argument in good faith by making obvious logical fallacies and not responding to the actual points being made.
I suspect it’s caused by various insecurities, and you’re projecting heavily. Case in point: I don’t give a fuck about up arrows, but you assume that’s the reason why I’m commenting. So that assumption is likely because you care about getting them. And since you fail to get them, rather than admit when you’re wrong you lash out.
It really funny, because the best and easiest way to win this argument over me is to now admit you were wrong. And I can can explicitly state that. And still I know you won’t do it.
JackbyDev@programming.dev 18 hours ago
The more you comment the more you sound like a nice guy.
Bennyboybumberchums@lemmy.world 17 hours ago
Im sorry to be the barer of bad news but that voice you hear when you read my words, is your own…
JackbyDev@programming.dev 16 hours ago
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This one isn’t really fair. If you put anything in this meme format it’s going to sound like that.