I’m not a biologist, but i presume you’re very wrong
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1984@lemmy.today 3 weeks agoI dont think men have been conditioned to find women hot any more than the magpie in the next tree finding her partner hot.
GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
1984@lemmy.today 3 weeks ago
I didnt really think about what objectified meant… I havent ever thought of a woman like that so its hard to imagine.
Wolf@lemmy.today 3 weeks ago
I wasn’t saying we are conditioned to find women sexy. I’m saying we have been conditioned to treat women as sex objects and not sexy people. There is a big difference.
The clue is in the name. Objectification is when you treat someone like a thing to be desired, and not like a whole human being with thoughts and desires of their own. When you act like getting you aroused is their sole purpose and/or the only value they possess.
It’s a learned behavior like racism or misogyny. And no, It won’t always happen, not once we evolve enough emotionally as a species to treat all human beings with love and respect.
1984@lemmy.today 3 weeks ago
You are right, I didnt really understand. I have never treated any woman as a pure object like that. How would that even work…