Comment on Anon dates a 19 y/o
Soup@lemmy.world 2 weeks agoNo man is an island. There’s only so much one can do on their own. I can do an awful lot on my own, but even much of that is because I’m learning from so many others. I’m fairly clever, curious, and confident enough to execute what I’m trying to do but I still need others.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 2 weeks ago
So what are you trying to do? I’m curious.
Soup@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Like what do I still need help for or what am I doing to build up my community?
For the first one there’s still plenty I can’t do yet. Like sewing for example, but it’s ok because I have a friend who can help me. We save money by me helping her with house things and she saved my expensive exercise pants from a hole in the knee and my work jeans from a couple holes and tears. Which transitions us into what I do for the community because I don’t always trade, either, and sometimes it’s just helping for the love of the game like woth moving. By myself, my ability to organize people and load up stuff in a moving truck is enough yo save people hundreds, or even thousands, of dollars on movers. If people need tools or skills or whatever I’m there. I have a car, which is less common where I am, and my trans friend needed help moving food for the local march last year so I offered to help them with that.
We can’t be experts at everything and we certainly don’t have the time to do it all ourselves. I always try as much as I can but it’s ok to ask others for help and we need to foster that sense of community support. Your ideas are good but they really work best when we can all trust each other and use that trust to organize against the owner class that’s keeping us down in the first place. Money is a good way to handle a lot of transactions of varying scales like this, especially when we have a global world, but the way capitalism uses money is twisted and corrupt, and it removes our ability to care for and support each other. Local businesses thrive when people can pay them and places like Walmart thrive when they’ve choked out competition and driven wages so low that no one can be expected to spend money on local goods, thereby making the town/city/region/country weaker.
Build skills, share skills.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 2 weeks ago
I like you. I will try, but…things are grim here. I’m trying to get an edge and break through.
If I lived alone, I could reduce expenses so much, that 3 months of work would cover me for years, letting me upskill and experiment
Soup@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I hear ya. I imagine you’re in the States and I’m in Canada myself so we’re better but still feeling it up here.
Curious how living alone would reduce expenses, though.