Comment on Anon doesn't fit in
LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
What is it with men and their obsession with women anyway? Dude seems like a gigachad but yeah getting friends/gf is gon be tough if suggest giving up and looking elsewhere for meaning.
pulsewidth@lemmy.world 3 days ago
Are we really at the stage of social collapse where people are confused by guys being attracted to women?
LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
But it’s phrased like a “need”. I’m attracted to men and women. I don’t need them like I need oxygen, food, nicotine etc.
savedbythezsh@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
Need for companionship falls under “social” in Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, right above physiological needs (like you listed) and safety.
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piccolo@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
I guess friends dont fit the companionship bill.
pulsewidth@lemmy.world 3 days ago
When people are young adults, their attraction to their preferred sex is peaking, maybe you’re different, but for most people it does feel like a need.
Not that OP actually mentioned ‘need’ anywhere in their long post…
LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
Well sure maybe during puberty, but after you just adjust surely, nah? I mean there’s lots of men with like horrific disabilities, disfigurements etc. that just make it highly unlikely they’ll ever find a mate, yet they live nonetheless.