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gandalf_der_12te@discuss.tchncs.de 1 month ago
IMO the worst thing about being a virgin is that it’s forbidden to have sex, at least according to your caring parents, teachers, and social context. It’s more about breaking the nonsensical rules than actually about having sex, at least that’s how it was for me.
subarctictundra@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Yep. I’m from a different country but it’s sadly amusing how here also that was somehow, without explicitly being said, drilled into me.
festnt@sh.itjust.works 1 month ago
i think it’s less explicitly “sex is bad” and more “virginity is holy”, making people feel like sex is bad