Comment on Anon tries to meet girls at college

• UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  The post implies the 30% of men in the class weren’t giving him the time of day, either.

  So, maybe it was an entire room full of NPCs. Maybe they were all psychic and he was just the odd guy out. Maybe it’s a Greentext and you shouldn’t take it at face value. Who can say? But as anecdotes go, the “everyone acted like an emotionally sterile zombie hobbling from class to class in a daze” sounds… out of line with my experience in virtually any social setting. Nevermind one with dozens of teenagers all packed in together.

  Like, I’ve got a few friends who teach high school. And the “I’ve got these kids who won’t stfu during class” stories are a regular part of the “how was your day?” conversation. What magic is happening between Senior HS and Freshman College that turns everyone’s most pernicious socializing instincts off in this one guy’s classroom?

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  • chonglibloodsport@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I graduated in 2024. I have been in the exact classroom described by the greentext countless times. It wasn’t every single class but it was many of them. All those NPCs/zombies you describe are people in the same boat as greentext. Everyone is wondering when someone else will step up to dip their toe in the water. The moment is fleeting though because soon all the phones are out and people are texting their friends, oblivious to the horror around them.

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    • UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      The moment is fleeting though because soon all the phones are out and people are texting their friends

      Okay, so they’re not just quietly ignoring each other. They’re fixated on their friend groups on the phone.

      Again, seems like the obvious opener is “study group”. And that group will inevitably get it’s own group chat.

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