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SolidShake@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

• simple@piefed.social ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  but also he's still going to judge you.

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  • Regna@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Why would her son judge her negatively? Or do you mean he would appreciate how hard she works to make their life bearable?

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    • simple@piefed.social ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      I know Lemmy is very left-coded but you have to be trolling if you think a 13 year old won't have any reaction to being told his mother strips for strangers

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      • Regna@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        What has that to do with left-coding. This has more to do with imprinting notions.

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      • andrewrgross@slrpnk.net ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Most people tend to overestimate how universal their own experiences and reactions are.

        And to clarify, this applies to you AND to the people you’re disagreeing with (and myself as well!).

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• trxxruraxvr@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  None of this is certain and it’s pretty useless to speculate if you don’t know the kid.

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  • SolidShake@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    Then why even ask the question in the first place? Since no one but OP knows their kid the most.

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    • andrewrgross@slrpnk.net ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Good advice is context-aware. Is often about offering guidance to help someone assess their situation from a third-party view.

      For instance, if you asked me how to give good advice to a stranger I wouldn’t say “tell them to get more sleep and exercise”. I’d say to focus on helping them figure out what their goal is and what their options are. You see the difference?

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    • Bane_Killgrind@lemmy.dbzer0.com ⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      The other comment mentioned, this poster seems to be trying to find the asymptote of incest coding in posts.

      Now op deleted a bunch of their other posts and it will take a bit of digging to figure out the history there.

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