Get mad at the system of patriarchy that created this situation
People like you are why dating makes me nervous. I end up scrutinizing actions that haven’t happened and make myself feel guilty for things I can’t control.
Stillwater@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
macaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
And we can only do that with a coalition of people to support that cause. Blaming and segmenting people for existing does nothing but weaken the base of support.
Star@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
And women are nervous in dating because if they trust the wrong person, they might get raped and murdered. Unfortunately, in the reality we live in, dating can’t really be carefree. With more systemic issues addressed, perhaps it can be.
macaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
Go ahead and read again what I wrote. I haven’t killed anyone, don’t plan to, don’t want to, and can’t control anyone who does.
Star@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 hours ago
All men should aspire to be like you, then. We’d have a much safer world that way.
fushuan@piefed.blahaj.zone 1 day ago
Sure, but they don't know, people lie. If we put in a balance your feeling being hurt vs them being murdered and/or raped, I'd say that unfortunately it's better for now for you to feel bad.