And women are nervous in dating because if they trust the wrong person, they might get raped and murdered. Unfortunately, in the reality we live in, dating can’t really be carefree. With more systemic issues addressed, perhaps it can be.
People like you are why dating makes me nervous. I end up scrutinizing actions that haven’t happened and make myself feel guilty for things I can’t control.
Star@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
macaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Go ahead and read again what I wrote. I haven’t killed anyone, don’t plan to, don’t want to, and can’t control anyone who does.
fushuan@piefed.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
Sure, but they don't know, people lie. If we put in a balance your feeling being hurt vs them being murdered and/or raped, I'd say that unfortunately it's better for now for you to feel bad.
Star@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
All men should aspire to be like you, then. We’d have a much safer world that way.
Stillwater@sh.itjust.works 2 months ago
Get mad at the system of patriarchy that created this situation
macaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 months ago
And we can only do that with a coalition of people to support that cause. Blaming and segmenting people for existing does nothing but weaken the base of support.