C’mon, he probably is leaving important details out, but “if people treat him badly, he must deserve it” is hardly fair.
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halvar@lemy.lol 1 day agowell even if this is the whole truth it would be a testament to his character that his girlfriend would cheat on him and then lie to the police just so he gets in trouble
KombatWombat@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Rooskie91@discuss.online 1 day ago
In the hypothetical scenario that this is the whole truth, what you’re doing is victim blaming.
halvar@lemy.lol 23 hours ago
I didn’t intend to do that at all. The proverb I had in mind was “birds of a feather flock together”. It doesn’t mean he deserved it but I do think people who date people who would do this to them are probably not much better either. Also he wrote this on 4chan which is again, not a complete footprint of his personality but certainly a testament to his character.
Saleh@feddit.org 1 day ago
Some people have bad radars about how dangerous the people they get in bed with are.
Some people self-sabotage by getting with toxic partners in the same pattern over and over again because they have unaddressed psychological issues.
Rooskie91@discuss.online 1 day ago
It’s usually people who were victims of past abuse, too.
Especially past childhood abuse.