Comment on Shaming Crayfish

dudinax@programming.dev ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

• D_C@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I know I do. The wife is 50/50 about them…

  source
• Dasus@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Well, people like dogs, but generally being compared to one os considered an insult in most cultures.

  Hypocritical, but what can you do.

  source

  • TeddE@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Historically sure. But pup play with a praise kink is growing from a fetish to a full on counter-culture. Who’s a good [boy/girl/pup]?

    This addresses the “what can you do” bit. We can turn their shame into a game and mock their mockery. Even without the slutshame/slutpride aspect, pup play often is fully nonsexual for a lot of pup groups and is a great way for lonely adults to meet new people, socialize, and remember to play.

    source
• Gustephan@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I never got this. The people in my life who call themselves sluts are some of the warmest most caring people in my life. I have to remember not to call people slut as a compliment most of the time because of the people I know who choose that title for themselves

  source