No, I want it abolished as a social expectation of the “default” situation.
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MotoAsh@lemmy.world 3 weeks agoUhhh, if you donpt like marriage, how about don’t get married?! This isn’t rocket science… They both got married. They both signed the social contract that by default means exclusivity, regardless of what you think.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
MotoAsh@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
No one forces a marriage to be monogamous…
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 3 weeks ago
Put it along with rest of crap in the “you are not ~techncially~ required” pile
webadict@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
There’s no technicality about it. The people that get married are the ones who determine the exclusivity of the marriage.
Like, it’s even dumber than that because if you didn’t have marriage, you’d still have people in exclusive relationships, so wtf are you complaining about?
MotoAsh@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I understand how shitty conservative social norms are to those repressed by them, but this usage of marriage as an example is… rather ridiculous.
grrgyle@slrpnk.net 3 weeks ago
Even married, you can have an honest discussion with your spouse about seeing other people (preferably before you get married), then just tell them you’re going to see Coleplay with your work girlfriend. Like it’s not illegal, and it’s not even wrong unless you make it wrong by being a shady little shit about it.
Just like fuckin… talk to each other about your feelings. God.
MotoAsh@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I love how you’re being downvoted for stating the most obvious solution.
HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
My besties have been in an open relationship for years and it works because of communication, trust, and trying to deserve said trust.