I know so many well meaning people who have said exactly this
Until the pregnancy test. And then they’re like “Let’s fucking DO it! We’ll be parents!!”
Comment on talking to my dad about depression
steeznson@lemmy.world 1 day agoThis is why I’m adopting if I ever decide with my wife to be parents. Can’t imagine the guilt of my DNA looking me in the eye and asking why “did you make me?”
lars@lemmy.sdf.org 1 day ago
TheBat@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Look straight back and say, “cause your mum wanted to get rawdogged and forgot her birth control pills”.
lars@lemmy.sdf.org 1 day ago
“…and your dad refused to get a vasectomy” which is easy and reversible and quick-recovery