Certainly does, thank you!

We have a lot of piints in common from what I see, because I, too, start off feeling uncomfortable in a “hey, that’s not exactly fair of me” manner, and evolves into an “ok, I’m starting to feel infantilised/suffocated” coded frustration if it persists after attempting to talk about it and balance things out a bit.

Otherwise, hell yeah! Gimme a lazy weekend on the couch with my SO, we’ll binge everything under the sun! I don’t mind being an utter slob as long as we both get to be slobs equally! But it’s entirely untennable long-term, so I’d much prefer to be allowed to pull my own weight within the relationship, unless objectively incapacitating circumstances apply, as you’ve mentioned!

Thank you so much for providing your perspective, clarity is within reach now! Also, deeply appreciate this coming from a former Sloth Demon😉 (got to see your old tag for a spell, had a good laugh:))) )