If im not in actual physical dnager because shes near me, then whats the point?
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ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 2 days agoIn my admittedly limited experience, women willing to kiss a guy are still often going to be reluctant to do something that they think might hurt that guy, even if the guy insists otherwise.
gmtom@lemmy.world 1 day ago
garbagebagel@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Honestly same but with guys. Guys that are too keen on hurting a woman are obviously bad, but then they can go the other direction and not be willing to do something even if the woman is a very willing participant.
Not saying I blame them, it’s just a consequence of our society’s general issues with consent.
captainlezbian@lemmy.world 2 days ago
In both cases I think its also just that some people arent comfortable topping
outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 day ago
Maybe, but also, our society is like desigbed to be as bD as possible at consent.