Oh please, it's clearly obvious there is nothing heteronormative about hetero people to use topping to mean something else. Peoples having a different meaning is not the same as enforcing themselves as the default, it's not even tangentially related.
carotte@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 weeks ago
and you’re the only one claiming ryedaft was “complaining about an entire group of people based on sexuality”
Deceptichum@quokk.au 3 weeks ago
Oh please, it's clearly obvious there is nothing heteronormative about hetero people to use topping to mean something else. Peoples having a different meaning is not the same as enforcing themselves as the default, it's not even tangentially related.
anzo@programming.dev 3 weeks ago
Fwiw, I’m hetero and having a girl on top feels like they have more, if not all, control.
I never subscribed to homosexual dichotomy of tops and bottoms. Long ago, I learnt that there were “active” and “passive” roles.
I guess it’s generational. Like “old” terms that sound antique or even “wrong”.