Because they’re wonderful! And because you love someone.
Yeah, they can also go horribly wrong. I think that’s true of just about everything good - the more good it is, the worse it hurts when it goes wrong. But get it right, and it’s amazing.
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Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 10 months ago
Why the fuck does everyone want to be in sustained meaningful relationships?
Because they’re wonderful! And because you love someone.
Yeah, they can also go horribly wrong. I think that’s true of just about everything good - the more good it is, the worse it hurts when it goes wrong. But get it right, and it’s amazing.
loonsun@sh.itjust.works 10 months ago
Because relatedness is a fundamental psychological need and sustained meaningful relationships are the best way to achieve that
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 10 months ago
Can get that from a chat at the bar. Sustained meaningful relationships are the best way to lead to depression and severe physiological trauma. Fuck that shit.
loonsun@sh.itjust.works 10 months ago
You’re clearly in need of therapy and a proper support network, I hope you get the help you need before it’s too late
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 10 months ago
Ha. I’m American, we don’t have those things. Just rugged individualism.
HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 10 months ago
“physiological” trauma? Like diabetes from all the PDAs?
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 10 months ago
Whoops. Typed too fast.