Comment on I hope i don't get downvoted for this

• Zozano@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Nudists think people who wear clothes and dont question whether their shame is vindicated are weird. I’m inclined to agree with them lol.

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  • lowleekun@ani.social ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    Honestly visiting an onsen was somewhat of an eye opener. I felt pretty comfortable with my body when all these normal dudes were naked and nobody cared about each others bodys.

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  • Carmakazi@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    I’m not surprised since your OP is boilerplate nudist justification and not really any exploration of paraphilia.

    I think there’s a mile in between puritanical shame and thinking the body isn’t and shouldn’t be considered sexual and is fit for public consumption. Why is it important to desexualize the human body? What’s the benefit?

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    • grrgyle@slrpnk.net ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      Gives people the choice whether they want to be sexualized or no. Like you shouldn’t have to wear a giant form-disguising hoodie just to keep from being ogled.

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      • Carmakazi@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        I suppose I could see that. I’m assuming you’re a woman or female-presenting cause that’s not something I can fully empathize with as a dude. But you do have the choice of dressing how you want to be perceived, no? I’m sure there are other options beyond wearing a trash bag of a top.

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    • Zozano@aussie.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I never implied the body shouldn’t be considered sexual, I was just explaining why certain body parts are.

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    • Vespair@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      My guy we are literally the only creature on the entire planet with a sense of shame who covers are body. If you don’t think there’s benefit to at least understanding why this enormous difference exists, I can’t even begin to fathom what your mind is like

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      • Carmakazi@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

        There’s a hell of a lot that separates us from other animals. Throw your smartphone in the trash and go frolic in the woods for the rest of your life if you are so convinced that thousands of years of human socialization is a mistake.

        I don’t like being called a deviant…because I like that wearing clothes is the norm? Maybe in return I’d posit that you’re actually a bunch of perverts who enjoy casual sexual encounters, and all this talk about normalization is bullshit?

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