Thatâs where Iâve always been confused. Every living being wants to propogate their species through innate biological urges and behaviors, whether they realize it or not. Obviously humans recognize these behaviors and are able to choose whether or not to actually have children or to simply act on these urges without procreating (condoms, birth control, etc.). But the innate biological inclinations are still there.
Itâs odd for me because Iâve never had these urges or inclinations for sex. Sometimes it makes me feel like Iâm not human or something. Because every living being seems to experience this. Even when I discovered the concept of asexuality, I found that a very significant number of these individuals either oddly still had a sex drive or they were sexually traumatized in some way which blocked it. I have never had a sex drive and was never sexually traumatized. I was not a âlate bloomerâ, as Iâm in my 30s with the same lack of normal human feelings.
zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone âš2â© âšdaysâ© ago
I donât try to propagate my genes ÂŻâ \\â _â (â ăâ )â _â /â ÂŻ
Deme@sopuli.xyz âš2â© âšdaysâ© ago
Perhaps not with conscious intent. I suppose even staying alive and contributing to a society still means that you help your relatives pass their genes on. Even gay penguins do this when they adopt an orphaned egg.
zea_64@lemmy.blahaj.zone âš1â© âšdayâ© ago
I donât even live near any of my relatives, and anyone I would help would be about as related to me as any other human (so, not related). Perhaps in another time period I wouldâve helped my tribe, but that is not the society I live in today.
Not that it really matters here, because I have no obligation to help genes.
Deme@sopuli.xyz âš1â© âšdayâ© ago
Every other human around you has almost the same genes as you. Just being kind to others is already a tiny contribution to the survival of the species and the genes we share. Pretty sure one would have to be actively suicidial or a Bond villain in order to not to help the genes that survive on with every breath anybody ever takes.