Comment on Anon is worried about men

• SomGye@dormi.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Step 2 - don’t be unattractive.

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  • SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    I’m at 0/2 are there any more steps?

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    • mitchty@lemmy.sdf.org ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Get a dog or cat or both.

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    • SomGye@dormi.zone ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Step 3 - Repeat Step 1.

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    • ExtantHuman@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      Be rich

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• surph_ninja@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Just be funny and not a piece of shit. My wife is so gorgeous, people immediately know I have a good sense of humor.

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• FatTony@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  If there is one thing the internet has overwhelmingly seceded at it’s convincing people that looks are absolutely everything. A lot of people I know tend to take their dating app experience as solid evidence of their romantic inaptitude. Even when it’s all too well known they are scams designed to keep you on their platform for as long as possible.

  I know that preaching about stepping up to women may feel like the same way of saying: “Just be attractive, bro.” And if it does, to that I say: Do it and practise it for the sake of it. “That looks like a nice person, let’s find out what they’re about, for no damn reason at all.”

  Anyway, my two cents.

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• MisterFrog@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Step 1. Be courteous Step 2. Interact with people in general Step 3. Ask our the people you’re genuinely interested in, and feel you have some kind of connection with, respectfully, knowing rejection is okay

  Repeat until you get a date.

  Being attractive helps a lot. Obviously. But you can put effort into your appearance. More than anything your personality is the thing that will get you a date.

  Having tried Tinder 12 years ago, once, around the time I became an adult, why you’d choose it over asking people out in real life is beyond me. Especially if you’re not very attractive.

  The meta is all off haha

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