Comment on The consequences (of my actions) have been extreme
someguy3@lemmy.world 1 week agoAt the point of sharing photos and Photoshopping someone to ridicule them, this isn’t an offhand comment said in frustration. This is planned and executed ridicule and mockery. He’s exposing the people for who they are because he thought their “friends” should know who they are and what they are doing. Not for the intent of “hurting everyone else involved intentionally due to a sense of self righteousness”. Whether you agree with what he thought or not, it’s not narcissism (by itself).At the point of sharing photos and Photoshopping someone to ridicule them, this isn’t an offhand comment said in frustration. This is planned and executed ridicule and mockery. He’s exposing the people for who they are because he thought their “friends” should know who they are and what they are doing. Not for the intent of “hurting everyone else involved intentionally due to a sense of self righteousness”. Whether you agree with what he thought or not, it’s not narcissism (by itself).
It’s also super bizarre that you want privacy for them *when they are fucking sharing photos (the context reading they were private) and sharing “raunchy texts”. Where was the privacy for their victims huh? They deserve what they got.
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
i mean, we also don’t know what they are. It could be really bad, but it could also be harmless shitposting among the community.
someguy3@lemmy.world 1 week ago
You can look at the descriptors they chose to use, and that’s very likely playing it down big time. I’m betting it was extremely bad.
KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 week ago
yeah, but we also don’t know what they are posting, so it’s equally shitty to assume that what they are posting is substantially bad.
Though assuming by the fallout, it seems like it was pretty bad? But then again i’ve seen friend groups break up over smaller shit.
someguy3@lemmy.world 1 week ago
What I’m saying is the person posting (the person in the group) has every incentive to downplay it as much as they can. And the description was still horrendous. I’m not assuming, I’m observing the situation.