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EddoWagt@feddit.nl 3 weeks agoI would also assume it was bait, some people are assholes and I’d be insecure in a moment like that
Comment on Anon gets handed a note
EddoWagt@feddit.nl 3 weeks agoI would also assume it was bait, some people are assholes and I’d be insecure in a moment like that
ebolapie@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
There have been times in my life when I would be insecure as well, but with some hindsight I realize that if someone really was going to be an asshole to me in a moment like that, it says a lot more about them than it does me. I lose more by being guarded than by being open. I do remember those times, and my heart hurts for anyone who’s going through the same thing.
The question was rhetorical. You’re a catch. It’s okay to be shy but allowing yourself to be vulnerable is how you find the people who are worth your time.