Comment on i’m scared of my boyfriend because he’s dry and doesn’t want to initiate a relationship, should i break up because of the latter part?

• Idontopenenvelopes@lemmy.world ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  That’s not a relationship. You’ve been ditched, it’s time to hold your head up high and shut that door. Not worth your time.

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• WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works ⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago

  Sounds like he’s just using you as his fucktoy.

  Dump this bum. Have some more respect for yourself. You deserve love and respect. If someone is going to be in a poly relationship, everyone in that relationship needs to be OK with it. It sounds like his boyfriend isn’t. If his boyfriend being upset is a reason not to be with you, then you aren’t really in a poly relationship. He’s in a relationship with his boyfriend, and he’s just occasionally cheating on his boyfriend with you. A poly relationship requires that all members be fine with the other members getting together. That is the difference between being poly and being a cheating bastard.

  Dump this bum.

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  • jol@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    It’s not really cheating if the bf is aware, but agree with everything else.

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• jol@discuss.tchncs.de ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

  That’s not how poly relationships work. You are a side bitch for when his bf is not around. Please remove yourself from this “relationship” for your sake.

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  • drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago

    tysm! we are broken up for now n he said that was ok because he wanted to be with his bf

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