drbollocks

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨is it likely that someone like this will change? what would be her possible mindset for doing all this?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  i blocked her :) thanks

• is it likely that someone like this will change? what would be her possible mindset for doing all this?
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨i’m scared of my boyfriend because he’s dry and doesn’t want to initiate a relationship, should i break up because of the latter part?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  tysm! we are broken up for now n he said that was ok because he wanted to be with his bf

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why is my psychologically abusive ex friend nice to me sometimes, especially in public?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  i did

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨i’m scared of my boyfriend because he’s dry and doesn’t want to initiate a relationship, should i break up because of the latter part?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  on the same community? and teens, yes

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why is my psychologically abusive ex friend nice to me sometimes, especially in public?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  i also have mental disorders and they look down on ppl with mental disorders

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨i’m scared of my boyfriend because he’s dry and doesn’t want to initiate a relationship, should i break up because of the latter part?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  well he does but he feels bad bc he has a bf he has been dating longer.

  sometimes he’ll send the occasional heart emojis if i do first

• i’m scared of my boyfriend because he’s dry and doesn’t want to initiate a relationship, should i break up because of the latter part?
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• why is my psychologically abusive ex friend nice to me sometimes, especially in public?
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨can you guess my favorite animal?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  🐱

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  i mean, i have to strain to remember the name of the guy who harassed me, so i probably won’t remember his name either after a decade :)

  thanks so much

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  ah, he said “let’s be friends” but he wanted to get back together in the future and i was willing to do that, but obviously not now.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  thank you ❤️

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  thanks ❤️ ig cuz it’s so recent and i still harbor some old feelings, i feel like he can change

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  i also notice that although he’s bi, he’d only talk about hot men (especially fictional), wouldn’t mention me to other people, and would talk to me about his crushes as if we were just good friends. he would also try to make moves with some of them, presumably not telling them about me

• would getting back with an ex be a bad idea?
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨uhh… my ex girlfriend and long-time friend is now cishet, very christian, and makes those “i identify as” jokes regarding trans people. would it end up bad for me if i continued to be her friend?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  the reason was that she wanted to stay friends after losing interest in me and she liked another girl, so idk

• uhh… my ex girlfriend and long-time friend is now cishet, very christian, and makes those “i identify as” jokes regarding trans people. would it end up bad for me if i continued to be her friend?
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I’m probably no longer center-left. If you could decide from my thinking, what political affiliation should I research to see if it fits me?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  genuine question. how are you not a victim of homophobia if you dated a girl in high school and are lgbt? and if no one ever has judged you for that, how do you not feel empathetic to other lgbt people who have?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨I’m probably no longer center-left. If you could decide from my thinking, what political affiliation should I research to see if it fits me?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  you are probably not center-left. you, to me, sound like either apolitical or one of the lgbt republicans who are “one of the good ones”.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why do people care about empathy so much when it’s not needed?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  knew a person who acted similar, she abused me. she ended up losing her punching bag and may well lose her friends. apparently things are going terrible dor her, and that’s how you’ll end up too, with everyone leaving you if you continue.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  nah, just upset me a lil

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  oh yeah same!!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  he’s blocked haha!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  😂

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  ahhh, tysm

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  he also told me “i love what females smell like, especially during sex. i bet you smell nice” or something like that :,)

• why do some straight people deny their loved ones’ homosexuality? (keyword: SOME)
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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨how could i talk to someone about them being aggressive without invalidating them but also without enabling/downplaying it?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  the person thinks they are better than everyone else and is also obsessed with rules, has to constantly insult others to remind themselves and others that they will always be better.

• how could i talk to someone about them being aggressive without invalidating them but also without enabling/downplaying it?
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