WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
So this person doesn’t want to call or hang out with you, never initiates anything, doesn’t make you feel loved, and just sends soulless loveless texts like they are sending a work email?
Sorry to be blunt, but what makes you think this person is your boyfriend?
drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 weeks ago
well he does but he feels bad bc he has a bf he has been dating longer.
sometimes he’ll send the occasional heart emojis if i do first
Idontopenenvelopes@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
That’s not a relationship. You’ve been ditched, it’s time to hold your head up high and shut that door. Not worth your time.
WoodScientist@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Sounds like he’s just using you as his fucktoy.
Dump this bum. Have some more respect for yourself. You deserve love and respect. If someone is going to be in a poly relationship, everyone in that relationship needs to be OK with it. It sounds like his boyfriend isn’t. If his boyfriend being upset is a reason not to be with you, then you aren’t really in a poly relationship. He’s in a relationship with his boyfriend, and he’s just occasionally cheating on his boyfriend with you. A poly relationship requires that all members be fine with the other members getting together. That is the difference between being poly and being a cheating bastard.
Dump this bum.
jol@discuss.tchncs.de 1 week ago
It’s not really cheating if the bf is aware, but agree with everything else.
jol@discuss.tchncs.de 1 week ago
That’s not how poly relationships work. You are a side bitch for when his bf is not around. Please remove yourself from this “relationship” for your sake.
drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 week ago
tysm! we are broken up for now n he said that was ok because he wanted to be with his bf