What kind of boundary do you mean and why is it so strong as to prevent friendship? Does it even prevent acquaintanceship? Do you at least have non-strangers in your life?
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fuckyou1@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago[deleted]
Flagstaff@programming.dev 5 weeks ago
fuckyou1@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
[deleted]Flagstaff@programming.dev 5 weeks ago
what do you mean by “in my life”?
I mean your social life; are there acquaintances who you had met earlier who you could message, “Hey, it’s @fuckyou1@lemmy.world from (wherever we had met)! How’s it going?” I’m talking about the building blocks to friendship.
it seems like part of me doesn’t want any social connections.
Don’t you ever get lonely? What do you do in your free time? Was there some kind of traumatic event in your history that led you to develop AvPD, possibly?
Deestan@lemmy.world 5 weeks ago
No, but it is a good point to bring up, because it illustrates the attitude you bring to human interactions. It reduces people to transactions, and it shines through. This creates a very strong wall/barrier to forming connections.