What kind of boundary do you mean and why is it so strong as to prevent friendship? Does it even prevent acquaintanceship? Do you at least have non-strangers in your life?
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fuckyou1@lemmy.world 13 hours agowhat do you mean by a good person? every human has good and bad in them. there is no such thing as a good person:
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there are people who make me feel good because they give me various benefits. is that what you mean?
let’s say i followed your advice. then i also need to be open to forming connections. no? I think i currently enforce a boundary that keeps me friendless. any thoughts on that?
Flagstaff@programming.dev 10 hours ago
fuckyou1@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
What kind of boundary do you mean and why is it so strong as to prevent friendship?
it seems like part of me doesn’t want any social connections.
Does it even prevent acquaintanceship?
i don’t think so
Do you at least have non-strangers in your life?
what do you mean by “in my life”?
Flagstaff@programming.dev 9 hours ago
what do you mean by “in my life”?
I mean your social life; are there acquaintances who you had met earlier who you could message, “Hey, it’s @fuckyou1@lemmy.world from (wherever we had met)! How’s it going?” I’m talking about the building blocks to friendship.
it seems like part of me doesn’t want any social connections.
Don’t you ever get lonely? What do you do in your free time? Was there some kind of traumatic event in your history that led you to develop AvPD, possibly?
fuckyou1@lemmy.world 9 hours ago
I mean your social life; are there acquaintances who you had met earlier who you could message, “Hey, it’s @fuckyou1@lemmy.world from (wherever we had met)! How’s it going?” I’m talking about the building blocks to friendship.
yes there are people like that
Don’t you ever get lonely? What do you do in your free time? Was there some kind of traumatic event in your history that led you to develop AvPD, possibly?
not sure. i like meeting new interesting people. maybe: lemmy.world/post/26616571
Have you ever helped anyone and felt good about it as a result?
yeah
Deestan@lemmy.world 2 hours ago
No, but it is a good point to bring up, because it illustrates the attitude you bring to human interactions. It reduces people to transactions, and it shines through. This creates a very strong wall/barrier to forming connections.