Comment on How important is flirting within the dating scene?

• FatTony@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  “Hey, I really enjoyed that conversation, let’s meet for a coffee some day, how can I text you?”

  But if I sign it off like this. That would be a pretty clear subliminal message, right?

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  • kat@orbi.camp ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Not really, I would take it at face value. Unless the person sent some really strong signals. And even then I would just do the conclusion that requires the least assumptions, which is just friend vibes.

    But you can still be explicit afte the fact tho. I get is hard tho, since you have to be pretty vulnerable.

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    • saltesc@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Eh, just say, “I’m trying to flirt with you. How’s it doing?”

      And if she laughs, you’re in. If she does squirmy-squirm face, “Well, I had to try. Now let’s enjoy this awkward silence together.” And stare at the ground silently, but for no more than three seconds.

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      • kat@orbi.camp ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        Never more than 3 seconds. Listen up guys, most important part!

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  • pennomi@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Yeah that’s a decent way to start. Giving compliments is a great way to flirt! Saying something like “That was a great conversation, you’re easy to talk to” might even be a bit more flirty without putting yourself that much further out.

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