Comment on Meaning/implication of “you don’t have to do this” in this context?
southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 1 week ago
Yeah, it looks like they were more into being quiet and non interactive.
Generally, I would have said it differently because I’m an old fart and not afraid to say “hey, could you chill on the questions, I’m not up for it.” Not only am I fine with being direct, I also don’t feel the need to be snarky.
So obviously, I’m also not likely to ever have to respond to such a statement as theirs.
So, what I think would be the ideal response is different from how I would actually respond.
In your place, I think something along the lines of “cool, no problem” would have been best. It lets them know you got the message, but doesn’t push back on a stranger for being a bit of a dick, which can be risky.
AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 1 week ago
Okay, thank you!
adespoton@lemmy.ca 1 week ago
They were opening up about themselves, not implying something about you.
People who actually listen are rare.
AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 1 week ago
Thank you!