GrayBackgroundMusic
@GrayBackgroundMusic@lemm.ee
- Comment on Which game is it? 1 week ago:
The factory must grow
- Comment on why is my psychologically abusive ex friend nice to me sometimes, especially in public? 1 week ago:
That sounds like one of my parents. They are a narcissist.
They’re doing it to save face and appear nice. They know they rules of society and push them as far as they can to gain advantage. If they know that being mean to you gets the same results as being nice, they will be mean.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
I give this a 50/50 being sea lioning. The reason being I thought this way when I was younger. I’m white and didn’t understand why everything was so focused on race until I was an adult. I don’t care about race that much, but everyone around me did and I thought it was weird. Once I was older and educated, I understood that it’s FAR more complex than my kiddo brain could handle without some education.
- Comment on [deleted] 4 weeks ago:
I wonder where this movement started where people overly obsess about this. Can’t we already just treat people for who they are/their personality and not judge them by their skin color and also not prefer some ethnicities over others?
I’m gonna guess you’re white. There are many reasons why people make race their identity. One of them is because OTHER people make it their identity. If you’re just a normal person walking down the street, but other people only reduce you to “black person” or “asian person” or “gay person” or whatever then there’s something in our nature that takes that on and reframes it into a positive, a strength. Most of the “something person” people I know didn’t start caring about that, but other people reinforced it SOOOOOO much. Additionally, when your category is legislated at the government level, then you can’t help but assume it’s a main part of your identity. To the government and society, you ARE that person. When you need permission from the government just to exist, it is defining.
- Comment on [deleted] 5 weeks ago:
What’s this got to do with lemm.ee such that it’s in the meta community?
- Submitted 1 month ago to [deleted] | 11 comments
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
wagecucks
Ah, yeah, you’re that kind of person. I can see why your accounts get deleted.
- Comment on [deleted] 1 month ago:
That word starting with r is a slur. Stop using it. Idiots and morons are acceptable replacements.
- Comment on Do you like the smell of bookstores? 1 month ago:
Idk about new books, but older book smell can be due to the breakdown of the lignin into things similar to vanillin. smithsonianmag.com/…/that-old-book-smell-is-a-mix…
- Comment on Why does it seem like Americans have become so hateful and destructive in the past years? 2 months ago:
From my perspective, they’ve always been there, but now they’re louder. They’ve been emboldened by the public perception that it’s okay to be terrible and hateful and selfish. It used to be that those people kept more quiet.
- Comment on What games have you sunk the most time into? 2 months ago:
<3 oxygen not included
- Comment on [deleted] 3 months ago:
No, gaslighting is when you say it’s sunny outside and someone argues that it’s actually cloudy. You can see for yourself that it’s sunny, but they insist it’s not. Usually, it’s not so cut-and-dry, my example is absurd to demonstrate how insane it is. Usually it’s more subtle, like you’re sure you put your keys on the key-hook next to the door, but your spouse says that you didn’t and then finds them in the bathroom or something. You’re 100% sure you put them on the hook, but your spouse is 100% sure you didn’t. (Spoiler, you did, and the spouse moved them, then lied and said you must have done it. The point is to make you doubt yourself.)
- Comment on Diablo 1 and 2 devs secure $4.5 million for a new ARPG: 'We're going back to what made those early Diablo games feel so awesome but taking them in some cool, fresh directions' 3 months ago:
What does that even mean? Why were d1 and d2 good? Plenty of games have come and gone with similar features.
Just as Harry potter wasn’t a great story, but had great timing, I think d2 was the same. It was good but it also was at the right time.
- Comment on Do spam calls "I wanna buy your house" ever work? Has anyone ever sold their house like that? 3 months ago:
You are a blessed individual. I get them frequently.
- Submitted 3 months ago to [deleted] | 26 comments
- Comment on Seeking feedback: how should lemm.ee move forward with external images? (related to frequent broken images) 5 months ago:
Whatever is most sustainable for you.
- Comment on Did the concept of 9-5 included a 30 minute lunch and two 15 minute breaks? 5 months ago:
USA. Been working 20 years. Every job has been 8 to 5, unpaid 1h lunch, 2x15min paid breaks. :(
- Comment on Do you actually care about your friend's new baby, vacation abroad or similar life events or are you just being nice? 5 months ago:
I do care. It makes them happy, I want them to be happy, so transitively, yes.
- Submitted 5 months ago to [deleted] | 35 comments
- Comment on Pharmaceutical Commercials (sound on!) 5 months ago:
Thank you for crediting them.
- Comment on Threw a wrestling watch party, made special food, and was very disappointed in the outcome. 5 months ago:
I need friends like you. I would have eaten so much I felt ill. Then helped clean. (I love cleaning, I know I’m weird.)
- Comment on What are the scariest games you've played? 6 months ago:
Eternal Darkness: Sanity’s requiem. It’s an older game, GameCube era. I don’t like horror games and this one isn’t true horror. There are some good jump scares and body horror though. I had to stop after a certain scene because of the jump scares. The sanity system is really great.
- Comment on Picture 6 months ago:
Oh what? Hold up. I’ll rehost it.
- Comment on Picture 6 months ago:
Time? Don’t you mean times? vimeo.com/86014703
(fan remake of scene 27, by fatal farm. Extremely graphic and NSFW)
- Comment on Why are doctors so hands off and unhelpful in the USA? 6 months ago:
I’ve also been through at least several primary care physicians because the ones I have seen are so short and don’t really take time to get to know you at all. They just pop in, ask you a handful of questions and leave, if your test results come back with anything abnormal, they say it’s nothing to worry about, they don’t want to take any extra time to help look into anything or diagnose you… like wtf?
Because we’re not people to them. They’re incentivized to treat us like cars. Repair as fast and as many as you can to get the most money.
- Comment on How do people in this day in age become nazis/neonazies sexist or even incels when there is so much knowledge against it? Do they get anything out of being that way? 6 months ago:
that YT link doesn’t need anything after the and-sign. www.youtube.com/watch?v=vGAqYNFQdZ4
- Comment on How do people in this day in age become nazis/neonazies sexist or even incels when there is so much knowledge against it? Do they get anything out of being that way? 6 months ago:
emotion, anger and hate requires effort and as a very lazy person it seems like a whole lot of effort misspent
Not to me. Emotions just are. My parents taught me a lot of bigoted ways and those emotions just rise up. I had to argue with myself against those thought, after I moved out and grew up.
- Submitted 7 months ago to gaming@beehaw.org | 7 comments
- Submitted 7 months ago to [deleted] | 9 comments
- Comment on Why is homebrewing so middle-class, straight, white, male? 8 months ago:
Look at the name of the community. Your response isn’t really helpful.