sneakypersimmon
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- Comment on Why will a cop arrest you if your in a ridable mower going down the street drunk? How is that a DWI when while you may be drunk you will not hurt anyone? 2 weeks ago:
Do you really think you can’t hurt anyone driving a lawnmower while drunk?
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 2 weeks ago:
One commenter even noted that it wasn’t her husband’s fault and he did his job but breastfeeding itself affected her libido.
It’s not his job to take care of the baby so that he can get sex.
It’s his job to take care of the baby because he is a father. It’s entirely independent of his relationship with his wife and his sex life.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 2 weeks ago:
The entire point of this sub thread is “this still sometimes happens to guys who aren’t massive piles of shit”
The prevailing belief in here that women don’t want sex themselves and that they are the arbiters of who gets or deserves sex is inherently sexist to begin with - there are so many reasons why someone’s libido may tank (men and women) and to cry about not getting your dick wet because you changed some diapers is tone deaf.
The first couple of years with children are intense. Kindness and empathy and communication will get you much farther in a relationship than letting resentment build. On both sides.
It can take years for women to fully heal and feel back to semi-normal in their bodies. Yeah, I’m going to side eye men that think their wife should be back to banging every day after a couple of months.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 2 weeks ago:
you quite literally paint every woman as incapable of caring about others and that’s why you’re single. Because you’re scared women will call you an incel.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 2 weeks ago:
The assumption in here is that all intimacy issues are caused by women refusing to give sex to men.
Almost like giving birth and raising a baby is an all-hands-on-deck situation and sex isn’t as much of an immediate need like sleep and eating and surviving are during that time.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 2 weeks ago:
“Women are soulless creatures who only want men for money and are incapable of caring for others.” -You
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 2 weeks ago:
Holy shit, you all were crying and downvoting en masse because “we are treating all men the same”.
What the fuck is this?
Women aren’t capable of caring for and making their partners safe and appreciated??
Wow. Wow wow wow.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 2 weeks ago:
Women bad because she won’t give me sex boo hoo
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 2 weeks ago:
Nah I divorced a man like you guys in here who didn’t feel the need to lift a finger after coming home from work.
It’s totally crazy how women need time to heal after birth, right guys? Huh huh huh but she won’t fuck me QQ
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 3 weeks ago:
You’ve completely misunderstood my intent.
I would never advocate withholding sex as punishment.
Men who think that they don’t have to do any chores or childcare after they’re done at work are the ones who should be putting in effort after they are getting home. Not because that’s how they earn sex, but because they are fathers and husbands.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 3 weeks ago:
A lot of grandparents still work these days as well, further limiting their ability to help with childcare.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 3 weeks ago:
We’ve got men in here confused as to why women get more time off after giving birth.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 3 weeks ago:
When the working parent is at work, sure.
As soon as the working parent is home, everything should be split 50/50.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 3 weeks ago:
The fault isn’t with desiring intimacy. Do you think women never desire intimacy? Do you think married women who have brought life into the world never want intimacy?
Men also can’t expect their wives to be open and available for sex if there isn’t a level of respect. Not being involved with child rearing and the house is showing his wife that he doesn’t care to help. That he doesn’t care enough about HER to be willing to help. THAT is usually a key part in not feeling loved and in turn killing the intimacy.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 3 weeks ago:
Oh no you put the “nice” coins into your wife and she didn’t give you sex like a vending machine??
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 3 weeks ago:
It’s really gross in here.
Is it so shocking that there are many different reasons that a woman may not want sex as often after having a baby?
Men in here acting like women are punishing them by withholding sex ffs.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 3 weeks ago:
Hm I wonder why the people giving birth get so much more time off.
Certainly has absolutely nothing to do with healing, I’m sure.
- Comment on She only wanted the ring bros 3 weeks ago:
There’s still a huge gap. Men do more, but still not as much as women.
- Comment on Justin Fairfax killed his estranged wife and himself 2 weeks before a court deadline to move out 3 weeks ago:
Oh my god.
I meant why can’t they take themselves and ONLY themselves out?
- Comment on Justin Fairfax killed his estranged wife and himself 2 weeks before a court deadline to move out 3 weeks ago:
He murdered her while their two teenage children were in the house.
They had been separated for years.
Why can’t these assholes just take themselves out?
- Comment on "Sober" 4 weeks ago:
And most other drugs aren’t nearly as destructive for you as alcohol.
- Comment on "Sober" 4 weeks ago:
The best thing I ever did was quit drinking.
The drugs work so much better!
- Comment on Don't poor people split the bills on dates? 4 weeks ago:
There is no way a millionaire heir or heiress is going to date someone middle class.
Matt Damon married Luciana Barroso, she was a bartender.
- Comment on Don't poor people split the bills on dates? 4 weeks ago:
There are lots of millionaires that have dated and married people of lower economic classes.
- Comment on Utah court rules Taylor Frankie Paul can’t have unsupervised visits with 2-year-old son 4 weeks ago:
Just until their next hearing on April 30 tbf
Though personally I think she should lose custody completely.
- Comment on Don't poor people split the bills on dates? 4 weeks ago:
There’s more reasons than just money to split the bill.
I always insisted on splitting the bill on first dates. Sometimes a man would pay the bill behind my back after I said I wanted to split it. I would not date those men again.
So it can be a filter, too.
- Comment on Rough time to be a woman. ☕ 4 weeks ago:
Yeah like divorce :)
- Comment on Rough time to be a woman. ☕ 4 weeks ago:
Kids as young as 4 years old would be put to work, so it’s not that far off really.
- Comment on Rough time to be a woman. ☕ 4 weeks ago:
Modern day vibrators are a silver lining to this time period lol
- Comment on Ex-Alex Jones employee reflects on job at Infowars: ‘It was nonsense. It was lies’ 5 weeks ago:
It’s one thing to be racist individually - it’s another to be used as a megaphone for said racism. His actions have made this world worse unfortunately.