Sentau

@Sentau@discuss.tchncs.de

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨My mom tells me I should cut dad off for cheating on her, am I a bad person for not wanting to do so?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Well if the that is case, there is no reason to compromise with your mom. Being with your dad is the way better option for you (since he loves you and you love him) and maybe it is the best option for everybody involved.

  Still I hope you understand that at some level what your dad did was morally wrong. Irrespective how crappy things were, the correct order would have been to seek divorce before hooking up/dating somebody else. Learn from the mistake he made.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨My mom tells me I should cut dad off for cheating on her, am I a bad person for not wanting to do so?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  OP you have given us way little information. How was your parents marriage before this blow up? Were you not close with your mother before? You mention you are close with your father but nothing about mother. Also were you upset or angry by the actions of your father? From the information you have shared (that you are staying with your dad and his mistress), it seems that you are not bothered by what is happening.

  Now based on the limited information you have given, your father is clearly the guilty party here. He did something that is morally wrong. Hopefully you understand that. Your mom is very hurt and must feeling betrayed (slightly even by you because you chose to stay with your dad and his mistress). In that emotional state, she is making a unreasonable request to you (to go no contact with your dad). If you want a good relationship with mom, you will have sit down with her and reach an understanding and compromise with her. Maybe you can go to therapy with her like some other commenters suggested. One thing I am sure about is that if you side with father on everything, you will end up estranged from your mom.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[deleted]⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Can’t his boyfriend drive the car

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Apple punishes women for same behaviors that get men promoted, lawsuit says⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩:

  Pretty disappointing state of affairs this

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon figures out how dieting works⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩:

  How do you calculate the calorie maintenance number¿?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨This official Palworld dating sim is the stuff of nightmares⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩:

  (͡•_ ͡• )

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon notices what they've taken from us⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩:

  I don’t think the base model iphone, galaxy or pixel are small. What I meant was phones like the iPhone minis, pixel 4a, S10e, etc.

  I mostly agree with you but have a small observation. You are using the screen size to argue that the phones are small but you are mistaken. The iphone se has a 4.7" screen as compared to the 6.1" in the iPhone 13 but in terms of phone size, the se(138.4 x 67.3 x 7.3 mm) is only 9 cm shorter than the while being just as wide and thick. The mini is smaller even though it has a bigger screen. There is a similar issue with the nexus phones you give an example of. While the screens were much smaller, the phone dimensions weren’t as drastically different to the standard 6.1" premium phones now because the older phones had much bigger bezels.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon notices what they've taken from us⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩:

  my big issue is that when manufacturers go with a small screen, they usually also think “budget phone”

  Wait I thought the situation was different. The only small phones I see are models of premium flagships while the budget segment has humongous monstrosities because designing a small phone with decent packaging and heat dissaption requires much more R&D

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Anon notices what they've taken from us⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago⁩:

  There is a serious market for people like me

  Unfortunately this just seems to be not true. Samsung, sony, google, apple all had smaller phones in their lineup at one time but eventually pulled them from the stack because they were not profitable. Don’t even get me started on the small phone scene in the budget segment. Absolutely no options exist. The unfortunate reality is that while small phone enthusiasts like us are very vocal, we a vocal minority and not enough of us exist who can make designing a smaller phone viable for companies.