Submitted 10 months ago by abitofgold@reddthat.com to [deleted]
Never understood this notion that its one party fucking the other.
It takes two to tango, If the relationship is consensual you are fucking eachother.
Or maybe its something weird and some sort of consensual voyeurism. People are entitled to their kinks.
I’ve read about this before, actually… I don’t remember the exact wording, but it was something like that the patriarchy requires everything that a man does to hold authority over a woman, so penetration is perceived and understood as a form of domination over the one who is penetrated. The woman — read the one who is penetrated, as in patriarchy a man cannot be penetrated — has no agency in sex, so if you’re being penetrated you are not “having sex,” you are “being fucked” by someone else.
I think the hardest part it’s not having sex definitely, but maybe founding someone willing to hold your hand in public
There are only two ways to have a romance.
Either it’s a cismale and a cisfemale copulating with the express purpose of creating a child, or it isn’t.
Since most romance is not for the purpose of having a child, we should relabel babymaking as “perverse” and everything else as “normal.”
Not gay if femboy
Robin@lemmy.world 10 months ago
It’s not gay if the balls don’t touch
abitofgold@reddthat.com 10 months ago
SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 10 months ago
Romanpilled