You know you can just say they/them for gender neutral pronouns instead of constantly putting both gendered options?
Like. That’s been a thing for as long as English has been a thing…
But it could still 100% be a scam regardless of if it’s a woman or not he’s talking to.
Depending on how old your friend is, just let them learn their lesson the hard way. Most likely way for success is get him to make up a financial hardship (or be honest about how he can’t spend this much) and see if she ghosts him. If that happens have him contact her about a surprise windfall, if she jumps back in 10x harder than before, that should be enough to open your friends eyes.
Nollij@sopuli.xyz 3 months ago
I think you’re approaching the wrong aspect. While that could be a scam where a man is impersonating a woman, there are plenty where it’s actually a woman running the scam. There are plenty of red flags here, and those don’t change.
The problem is that I’m sure your friend is aware of those red flags. He’s also choosing to ignore them. I suspect he doesn’t do well with women IRL, and this at least gives him hope.
Assuming that’s all true, this is way above the pay grade of random people on the Internet.