Does anyone know of a Discord alternative with a look and feel similar to Discord, but without the cancel culture?

I won't get into it, but I was falsely accused of "hate speech." I don't even know what that is anymore? I mean, they keep changing the damn rules, the interpretation of the rules, or even what the English language means. It is a bar that can never be reached.

Worse, I started a homebrew computing forum that was among my most successful ones, and now, I am not there to run it.

TBH, I'm sick of this bullshit. I'm sick of "cancel culture," and I'm sick of Silicon Valley monopolizing all the large sites. I just wish the 9/11/2001 terrorists would have hit San Fagsicko (and maybe Los Demonas and Hollyweird too) instead of the Twin Towers and the Pentagon.