Nah it’s contrived.
It’s an impossible accusation to disprove, because it’s not a thing you did, it’s your preference. You can only “protest too much” or “protest too little”.
Likely the other person wants the relationship to end, but can’t stand the idea of it being their fault. So it’s the “closeted” person’s fault.
Luccus@feddit.org 2 days ago
I have “the aura”. And although I don’t know what that means, I’ve started asking anyone who asks me if I’m actually gay, what leads them to that assumption.
The current top picks are:
I look put together, I care about hygene, I have clean my home, I’m usually friendly, I look happy.
Like… their assumption is correct. But when did caring for oneself become a sign of the big gay? What are straight people doing?!
bane_killgrind@slrpnk.net 2 days ago
The straights are not doing well
veganpizza69@lemmy.world 2 days ago
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metrosexual
Lycist@lemmy.world 2 days ago
haven’t seen that term in decades.
veganpizza69@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Perhaps because it’s nearly normal now, so the distinction is not necessary.