Comment on Anon on hobby communities
Sabre363@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
It’s cool if other people have the same hobby/ interest, but just like, somewhere else please. I’m far too particular and special about the things I like and how I do them. If anyone tries to participate but can’t match or fit with my weirdness, then it just becomes a stressful, frustrating, anxiety inducing, not-fun time.
Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
you need to be the one enjoying the hobby somewhere else, if this is the case
Sabre363@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
I mean, yeah, this is exactly what I’m trying to say, lol.
We can all have our own little comfortable spaces to enjoy our things and should be able to choose how we share a space. I just generally like people to stay out of my spaces because otherwise it tends to become an uncomfortable place unless I’m with specific people. I would never ask anyone else to change their behavior or edit their spaces just to accommodate me being weird. That’s not fair to them, and I know that I’m the probably-autistic idiot in the room.
Jiggle_Physics@sh.itjust.works 1 day ago
I guess your comment’s POV, being framed coming from someone who didn’t like people trying to participate with them in their hobbies, lead me to perceive the position being from someone out in the social spaces of their hobbies, where something like that can happen, rather than something like at home, alone, doing their thing.
I guess my point is that the way the comment was worded seems to create the opposite setting of what you were trying say?
Sabre363@sh.itjust.works 18 hours ago
Hmm, I suppose what I said could be rather easily misinterpreted that way.