ThrowawayPermanente@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
Structuring it to avoid having benefits clawed back does seem unethical but I would honestly do the same.
I don’t think there’s anything wrong with leaving everything in the hands of the most capable child along with the clear understanding that they’re now the one who is responsible for looking after the family.
DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 3 days ago
There sure is, it’s called an understanding of human nature.
ThrowawayPermanente@sh.itjust.works 3 days ago
Do you mean they’ll probably just keep it all for themself? If so then you’re right, that’s something you would have to consider.
DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 3 days ago
Yes, trusts need oversight, always. Family means very little to some people when money is involved and you never really know who they are until they’ve been stress tested.