This is not the first time this happened. The past situations like this, I just lower my pride and cook for him because when I don’t… he just starves himself. He does not want to cook and I don’t even know why. When I asked him about it all he replied to me was “That’s your job. Cooking is your chore, right?” and I replied with “Well, there are times that I can’t cook for you. Just like how sometimes I do your share of chores when you don’t want to do them”

This is from OP in responding in the comments of her reddit post. It sounds like OP’s boyfriend is a man-child